A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after revealing that her biggest relationship dealbreaker is a man who doesn’t speak in tongues.
In a viral video shared on TikTok by @peoplequicktalk, she revealed that a man who doesn’t speak in tongues or belong to a church department can never be loyal.
She claimed that such men lack spiritual discipline and commitment, which is why many marriages today fail.
The lady went on to say that a man who speaks in tongues and actively serves in church is usually spirit-filled and faithful, adding that as a Christian, speaking in tongues is one of her major relationship criteria.
Some netizens agreed with her, saying spirituality is key to a successful marriage, while others dragged her for being “too spiritual” and unrealistic about relationships.
One user wrote:
“So if he’s kind, loving, and responsible but doesn’t speak in tongues, he’s not good enough?”
Another added:
“Speaking in tongues doesn’t mean faithfulness, my sister.”
Her opinion has stirred mixed reactions online, with many debating whether spirituality or character should be the real dealbreaker in relationships.
